Kalyana Porutham - Marriage Compatibility
When people talk about Kalyana Porutham, they get obsessed with the score. "Oh look, 8 out of 10 points!" But honestly? The score doesn't mean much if the people don't click. Real compatibility is about balance. The 10 poruthams are just a checklist for the basics: Health, Money, and Intimacy.
For most Tamil families, Rajju Poruthamis the deal-breaker because it's about the guy's life span. But other stuff? It's manageable. Even if your Rajju Porutham is weak, but your ruling planets are friends, you can still have a solid marriage if you talk to each other.
At the end of the day, Kalyana Porutham is just a tool to help you understand who you are marrying. It shows you if they are short-tempered or patient. Once you know that, the rest is on you. As elders say, astrology shows the path, but "Vittukoduthal" (adjusting) is what walks it. Don't just marry the points; marry the person.